I despite the term “dieting.”
I think I automatically associate diet with deprivation. It probably has a lot to do with my past struggles with anorexia and over exercise. Yet, most “diets” are not known by the foods you eat, but rather, the ones you eliminate.
No carbs.
No sugar.
No fat.
I find that most people who are on a diet are frustrated, hungry, and end up giving up because they are confident in what they can’t eat…but they aren’t sure what they CAN eat.
So if you’re reading this, and you’re a chronic dieter, let me offer you one piece of advice:
Be done with dieting.
No, I’m not telling you to go buy a season’s supply of White Fudge Oreos and plop down on your couch, never to eat healthy again.
But this time, I want you to focus on listening to your body and honoring what it needs.
Begin with prayer.
If you’re one who feels silly asking God for help with your eating, I have a few questions for you:
Has God instructed us to take care of our bodies?
Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. — 1 Corinthians 6:19–20
Do you find yourself anxious and overwhelmed when you think about food?
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. — Philippians 4:6–7
Every problem, whether big or small, should be taken to God in prayer as our first response…not our last resort. Be specific in areas where you know you struggle, and ask God to help you to choose to honor Him with your body.
Listen to your body.
Yes, this means sometimes, you can trust your body’s cravings. God created our bodies so efficiently. When our bodies are missing nutrients, it sends a hunger trigger to our brains so we know how to satisfy ourselves.
For example, if you find yourself craving peanut butter, your body probably needs a little protein and some healthy fat.
But that’s not all.
Listening to your body includes listening to your body after you’ve eaten.
Do you feel satisfied? Energized? Focused? Alert? You should.
The main reason I eat so healthy has nothing to do with not liking the way unhealthy food tastes. (I assure you, I’m normal!)
But I despise the way unhealthy food makes me feel afterward.
My life, just like yours, has many demands. I’m a wife. I’m a mom. I have a job. I expect my body to exercise regularly.
If I expect my body to meet these demands, I must fuel my body properly so I can function at maximum capacity.
But it can’t end with listening. You must also respond to your body’s cues.
If you are repeatedly sluggish after lunch, change what you eat until you find a meal that works for you.
If you find your blood sugar regularly drops just 2 hours after you’ve eaten, try eating smaller meals every 2 hours.
You can’t just try diet after diet that works for someone else. Just as your body is unique to you, the right nutrition plan should be just as customized.
Educate yourself on learning the health benefits of food.
Learn sources of healthy fats. (Yes, your body needs fat. In fact, it takes fat to burn fat.)
What are lean sources of protein?
What’s the difference between a simple carbohydrate and a complex carbohydrate? Is one better than the other?
What’s the benefit of including fiber in your meals?
Do I need to supplement?
This may need you need to enlist the help of a health professional, such as myself, in the beginning. But I assure you, you will learn quickly, and it will change your focus from what you can’t eat to what you should eat.
Who will join me and be done with dieting?
**If you are serious about honoring your body and renewing your mind on how you think about food and exercise, I have challenge groups beginning every month. These groups are intentional and highly focused on accountability. Because of that, each month only has 5 spots. If you are interested in joining one of these groups, contact me.**